Fashion Friday: My New Cowboy Boots!

I'm still on vacation from work, so I'm just doing a quick Fashion Friday post.  Check out what was under the Christmas Tree for me...

YES!!!  Brand new Lucchese Cowboy Boots!  I love them.  They are the perfect color and will go with everything.  My hubby got them for me from Country Outfitters.  He knew I wanted some new boots and he actually picked these out for me.  It turns out I had pinned them on Pinterest (but he didn't know that because he has no idea what Pinterest is!).  It worked out perfect.  I've already worn them with jeans and I can't wait to style them with some cute dresses.  I'm going to see Zac Brown Band again in January so I will definitely be wearing them there.  I doubt if they will ever be worn to the office but they are absolutely beautiful.  They are so comfortable, I highly recommend them!

Do you love cowboy boots?  How do you wear yours?

My Top 5 Favorite Christmas Movies

1.  My all-time favorite Christmas movie is It's a Wonderful Life.  It is also one of my all-time favorite movies in general.  I cry EVERY year when I watch this movie.  It brings back memories of my wonderful childhood and Christmas time with my family at our house.  But mostly I love the message.  Money and status don't make you successful, being a good person and helping others will provide you with all the riches you need.  We never really know all the people's lives we impact.  "No man is a failure who has friends", is written in the Tom Sawyer book at the end of the movie.  And then Harry says it best:  "To my big brother George, the richest man in town!".  I LOVE IT!!!

2.  My next favorite movie is A Christmas Story.  I remember watching this movie for the first time at my friend Stacy's house in middle school.  I brought it home for my parents to watch and I thought my dad was going to literally die from laughing.  And that was the beginning of our family's love affair with this movie.  He laughed just as hard the 100th time he watched that movie as he did the very first time.  See, my dad was just about the same age as Ralphie's little brother Randy in 1940 when the movie is set.  It was a hilarious reminder of my dad's own childhood. 

3.  Miracle on 34th Street - the original black and white version with Natalie Wood and Maureen O'Hara.  What else can you say?  This is such a wonderful movie about the spirit of Santa Claus and the "BELIEVE" philosophy. 

4.  How the Grinch Stole Christmas - the cartoon version.  This reminds me of my childhood also.  I remember I used to cry when the Grinch would whip the dog on the sled, it made me so sad!!  It's just a classic Christmas movie.

5.  Elf.  Will Ferrell is so hilarious and the whole movie just makes me laugh. But the end gets to me when they need all the power of the "believers" to help Santa get is sleigh up and flying.  It's really cute.

Fashion Friday: New Year's Eve in Blacksburg

Quote of the Week: Never get so busy

This is my last day at work for the next two weeks!!  I am so excited to get some time away from the office and spend it with my AMAZING children, family and friends.  This quote reminded me of how important it is to get away from work and enjoy the life we are working so hard to have.  My posts may be few and far between for the next two weeks but I'll be back at it soon enough.

NACE Report: Top "Soft Skills" Employers Seek in Candidates

NACE (the National Association of Colleges and Employers) recently released its Job Outlook 2013 report on an annual survey of the job market for new college graduates.  It once again shows that certain skills and abilities that can be acquired both inside and outside of the classroom rank high among hiring managers.  Those "soft skills" include:  communication, ability to work in teams, decision-making and problem-solving.  You can see the press release here.

This report states that "just over 78% of employers screen candidates by GPA" and they give much consideration to the career-related experience that college career center staffs are constantly promoting and encouraging students to participate in.  So, when do these, so-called, "soft skills" work into the formula?  These "soft skills" are the qualities that set candidates apart from one another.

I believe that for the most part, you can assume if you are invited for an on-site interview that the hiring organization feels pretty certain you are able to complete the tasks and responsibilities required for the job.  At this point they are looking for which candidate seems to be the best match for the organization, shows genuine passion and interest in the position, and has experience in the other skills that are necessary to be successful in that organization.  Many people call them "soft skills".  I'm not a huge fan of that term because it makes them seem less important when, in fact, I believe that are probably just as important and maybe more important than the content skills gained through education and practical training and experience.  If you look at the Top List from the NACE report you will quickly see that all of these skills need to be DEMONSTRATED in an interview.  A hiring manager generally cannot glean these soft skills from a resume.  A savvy job seeker will be prepared to answer questions and tell stories that demonstrate her skills in each of these areas.  This list is the perfect "koofer" or study guide for the interview.  (for those outside of Virginia Tech who don't know what a "koofer" is you can read more about it here, here and here)

To successfully demonstrate your skills in these areas for employers the job seeker must practice the art of descriptive and purposeful storytelling.  There is a formula for answering these types of interviewing questions called STAR.  STAR stands for Situation, Tasks, Action and Results.  Tell a story that describes the:
Situation (or scenario)
Tasks that were involved in resolving or handling the situation
Action that was taken by YOU
Results of your efforts

When a job seeker uses this formula to answer interview questions regarding these types of skills and experiences she will provide a thorough, specific and detailed demonstration of her skill level.  This is what will set her apart from other candidates.

Certainly these "soft skills" can be gained in the classroom but they are often also found in summer jobs and internships, involvement in student organizations, athletic teams, and volunteer and service experiences. Education and preparation for the working world does not just happen in the classroom of your college campus, it happens all over your campus.  Students should take advantage of these opportunities to gain these much sought after "soft skills".

What do you think about these "soft skills".  Could you answer an interview question about each of these top sought after skills?

Prayers for Sandy Hook and Newtown - Proverbs 26:1

I have been drawn to this scripture all weekend.  My heart is broken and overwhelmed by the horrible tragedy at Sandy Hook Elementary School on Friday.  I know all too well the fear, sadness and shock that Newtown is experiencing right now.  It was just a little over 5 years ago that I hid in a locked-down building on my campus at Virginia Tech with my shocked co-workers and scared students while we received periodic updates and phone calls from around campus reporting a horror that none of us were prepared for.  The sound of constant sirens blaring for hours in the distance and the parade of police cars and ambulances driving past our windows are sounds and images I will never forget.  The sick feelings of helplessness, anger, confusion, fear and utter disbelief wash over you like emotional waves.  I feel that way again when I think about the events from last Friday.  I am so very, very sad.

I can't help but cling to the brave and heroic acts that took place in Sandy Hook Elementary School on that day as my only form of solace in this horrible situation.  My husband was a teacher for 12 years and both my sisters' work in schools as a counselor and administrator.  I know that every person who is charged with the care of children would react with the same sense of protection and purpose as the faculty and staff in that school.  I am so grateful to the first responders who entered that building to protect and care for all of those children and adults.  I pray for each one of them and the horrible things they must have seen.  I mourn with every parent whose sweet innocent child was taken from them.  I send prayers of comfort to all the children who are scared and confused.  I know the community of Newtown is feeling invaded by the media and "outsiders" while they are trying to understand and cope with what has happened to their children and community.  But I hope they can feel the love and support coming from of our country. 

Mostly, I just pray for everyone in that community to be filled with the peace that only God can provide.

If you feel so inclined, donations can be made to the United Way of Western Connecticut here.

Fashion Friday: Holiday Party Style

'Tis the season for Holiday Parties!!  This week is the final installment of

The Professional vs. The Intern

 

So, we decided it would be fun to each style a look for the season of glitter and festive parties.  Christina has finshed up her internship and is studying for her final exams.  We have one final joint post which will come out next week but this is our last fashion post together.  :(

 

Here's what we came up with...

 

 

 

I love this one!!  We both took a classic silhouette in a neutral and made it special with accessories.  We each chose a beautiful clutch as a statement piece and showed how shoes can really make an outfit unique.

 

I want to thank Christina for all her wonderful contributions to Fashion Fridays.  She truly is as classy and stylish as her fashion picks!

 

What will you wear this holiday season?

 



Quote of the Week: FLY

 

This is dedicated to Christina, the "Intern"

2012 Gift Giving Guide by Interest Code

You might remember a few weeks ago I introduced you to the Holland Interest Code (here).  Career professionals use the Holland Interest Code as an interest assessment when working with students (or other clients) to help them summarize their interests and connect them to various work environments.  This assessment gives some wonderful insight into how people enjoying spending their time, as well.  When buying gifts around the holidays most of us scratch our heads trying to figure out what to buy our friends and family members.  I am so blessed that the people I buy gifts for really don't "need" anything so the gift is truly a thoughtful gesture.  I try to buy them things they would like or may find useful in some way.  I thought putting together a gift giving guide by Holland Code might be kind of fun.  Here's a brief description of the 6 types:

Realistic:  Hands on; enjoys outdoors and athletics, likes to work with tools and build things
Investigative:  Loves to learn; enjoys science and trivia, is an analytical and logical problem solver
Artistic:  Creative; enjoys creative expression, colors, music, art, movies, and fashion
Social:  Loves to help people; enjoys working with and helping others, and spending time with others
Enterprising:  Influences people; enjoys leading and impacting people, knows how to work a room
Conventional:  Likes to organize; enjoys organizing, making lists and arranging details

I had Christina go do a little on-line shopping to come up with some great gift ideas for each of the 6 Holland Types.  Here's what she came up with...

 

Realistic:
1.  Bolt Ring  2.  Digital Sports Watch  3.  Riding Boots  4.  Thermos  5.  Fuzzy Earmuffs

Investigative:
1.  Brillant Idea Notebook  2.  Readers  3.  Headphones  4.  E-Reader Cover

Artistic:
1.  Sketchbook  2.  Pencil Case  3.  Holga 35mm Camera  4.  Patone Color Palettes Books

Social:
1.  Gem Coaster  2.  Hi-5 Mittens  3.  iPhone Cases

Enterprising:
1.  Where will you be...  2.  Power watch  3.  Laptop/Work bag  4.  Classy Pumps

Conventional:
1.  Life Planner  2.  Polka Dot Stapler  3.  Pencil Cup  4.  USB Bow


Happy Shopping this Holiday Season!! What's on your wish list this year??  (Cowboy boots are on the top of my list - hint hint)

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

Fashion Friday: Presentation Style!

Well, this week's Fashion Friday post is three days late - sorry!  I was attending the SoACE (Southern Association of Colleges and Employers) conference in Tampa earlier last week.  I returned home with a horrible ear and throat infection and have been miserable for days!!  Definitely the most sick I have been in years.

On Wednesday morning of the conference my co-worker, Katie Steuer, and I presented on Strengths Development and Appreciative Advising as tools to use to engage and retain new hires.  We were excited to share some career advising tools with our colleagues on the HR side.  That is what inspired this post.  People often wonder what to wear for a professional presentation at a conference or other places.  We both present in front of college students all the time, but speaking to other professionals and colleagues about your work adds another element to the preparation.  So, I asked Christina to do another version of The Professional vs. The Intern on Presentation Style.  Here's what we came up with...

It's funny how similar Christina and I can be sometimes!!  We both picked the pop of red to pair with other neutrals.  I think it was Bill Blass who said, "When in doubt, wear red".  We do these separately and then share our final picks with each other.  This just reinforces that I did a great job of selecting the most awesome intern ever!

Here are 7 thoughts on how to dress for a professional presentation:

1. Wear close fitting, tailored clothing.  It looks more polished and flattering.
2. Don't wear all one dark color (i.e. black or navy suit).  Break it up with a pop of color, especially close to the face.
3. Wear simple jewelry that won't distract or make noises during the presentation as you move around.
4. Wear a watch to keep an eye on the time.  Nothing makes you look more unprepared and unprofessional then running out of time to finish your presentation.
5. Wear lip gloss.  Color draws attention to your lips and research has shown people will hear and understand you better if they can see your lips.  Plus lip gloss helps your lips from getting dry when you are doing a lot of talking.
6. Complete your look with polished and appropriate shoes, especially if you will be standing on a stage during your presentation.
7. Be the best dressed person in the room!

Here is what I actually wore for my presentation:

I wore this bright purple jacket and grey pencil skirt from The Loft.  I wore a white short -sleeved bouse with subtle ruffles on a v-neck cut.  I really wanted to wear a dress with a jacket but I just couldn't find what I wanted.  This was my "Plan B". 

I was hoping to find a dress like this:

 And, if I could wear yellow I would have really liked this jacket with a grey dress:

What do you wear for an important presentation??